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Resources For Friends & FamilyMaybe you haven't stopped by here for yourself, but because you have family or friends that are experiencing infertility. We appreciate your thoughtfulness and know that they will too. Infertility is a sensitive topic, which can be difficult to address. Maybe you don't know what to do or say, or how to comfort your loved one during this difficult time. There are many myths and common platitudes that seem harmless to say, but can be the cause of much pain. We have compiled some resources that will hopefully help you navigate relationships with someone who may be experiencing infertility.
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The Basics |
Infertility is not the man or woman's "fault" or problem, it is carried by both in the relationship. It is a legitimate medical condition that effects about one in six couples. Before you give advice to anyone with infertility, consider whether you would state the same to someone with any other illness, like diabetes, or cancer. In fact, unless it has been requested, it may be best not to give advice at all.
What we want the most is your empathy, your support, someone to listen to us, someone to pray with us, and to feel valued. Your offering or being any of those is incredibly meaningful. |
Resources |
Here are some websites that we hope will provide a deeper understanding & advice on how you can help:
Ways to Support A Couple Experiencing Infertility A Catholic Perspective of Infertility A Discussion of Platitudes To Both Perspectives Some Personal Stories and Faces of Infertility What it Means to Say Yes to Life |